Good Advice from Dear Abbey

It is nice to get advice and perspective from different sources. I just recently found some advice that parents may wish to invoke with their young drivers.  Thank you to Dear Abbey  for her wise words!

Dear Abby: Teen with traffic tickets may get ticket only to ride

Dear Abby: My niece, “Amy,” got her driver’s license last November. Since then she has been stopped six times for violations. Unfortunately, she wasn’t ticketed for any of them — just given warnings. Who knows how many other times she should have been ticketed?

When Amy told me about it, she acted like it was a joke and something she was proud of. Her parents are divorced and her father spoils her beyond reason. He gives her whatever she wants, including buying her a new car. Her mother has little control over her.

My niece doesn’t seem to understand the possible consequences or what serious damage a car can do to her or to someone else. How should I handle this? I have no contact with her father. Any ideas? — Concerned Aunt in Massachusetts

Dear Concerned Aunt: Although Amy was old enough to get her license, she is not yet mature enough to handle the responsibility that goes along with driving. For her sake I hope you will impress upon her mother that lives could depend upon her exerting control over her daughter.

Many states restrict conditions under which a teen may drive a car. In addition, many parents draft a driving contract that stipulates things like what kind of grade-point average their teenager must maintain to keep his or her driving privileges, limiting the number of passengers he or she can transport and certain distance limits.

Other restrictions can be added at the parents’ option. A version of the following contract has appeared in my column before:

I ( ), agree to the stipulations stated below granting me the privilege of driving. If, at any time, I violate this agreement, my driving privileges will be forfeited.

(1) Should I get a traffic ticket, I agree to pay for the ticket, as well as the difference in the insurance premium for as long as the premium is in effect.

(2) I agree to pay for damages that I incur that are not covered by insurance.

(3) At no time will I ever text or use a cellphone while driving.

(4) At no time will I ever drink alcoholic beverages and drive, nor will there ever be any in my car.

(5) I will not drive the car until I and all passengers have buckled up.

(6) I will keep the car I drive clean, inside and out, be aware of its need for gas, oil, etc., and wax it as needed.

I have read the above agreement and will sign it in accordance with the rules.

Signed: (Child)

I hope you will share this information with Amy’s mother, because in careless hands a car can be as dangerous as a loaded gun. It is not a toy, even though your niece appears to be treating it like one.

http://www.recordonline.com/apps/pbcs.dll/article?AID=/20120514/COMM/205140311/-1/SITEMAP

Thanks again Abbey for your sage advice that you have laid out above.

My Traffic Ticket Tip:

As one of the millions of Parents out there, I have had concerns about how my children were driving while on their own.  Parenting does not end once the driver has been issued a driver’s license. As a parent we have the obligation to help our young drivers develop their driving skills and gain experience.  We should be setting good examples by demonstrating good driving attitudes, practices and decisions.  We should be letting our drivers drive with us whenever we have the opportunity so we can see how they are progressing in their driving skills and engage in conversations  that will bolster their skill set.

If you are not a confident driver, my best suggestion would be to find a driving instructor who will give your driver the skills and knowledge that they need to survive out on the roadways.  Up to know you have “invested” tens and tens of thousands of $$$ in your child, so driving lessons that will keep them from getting into a crash may be just the ticket that will keep them safe.

I think that Abbey might agree with me on this one!

Drive Safely!

Gord

VR, 1405

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Happy Mothers Day!

There are lots of ladies that I know who are superMoms.  They are dressed in many types of garb but under their street clothes must be a superhero type of uniform that they wear.  Moms have the uncanny power to juggle babes in arm and load groceries while the weather is the most inclement.  They are able to anticipate spittle (most of the time), scoop up fallen teddy bears, and stopped those tears from a skinned knee by applying a band aid and a kiss.

Sure Dads do things, but Moms are truely the force that keeps families on the go.

Moms do EVERYTHING.  They go everywhere.  They drive the most precious cargoes in the world from the size of 6 pounds or so up till they may tip the scales at 250 pounders.  Moms drive kids! Of all sizes, in all sorts of moods, and also their friends!  From music lessons, to school, to the pool, to sports activities, to the mall.  Moms drive kids EVERYWHERE!

I had a chat with a Mom that I know the other day.  She pointed out that she was driving some different wheels.  I had just finished saying Nice when she told me that her other vehicle was written off in an accident.  Mom told me that her children were in the van and that she was just so greatful that no one was hurt.  It was a good enough crash… and thankfully no one needed to go to the hospital.  There was a little bit of a waver in her voice as she told me what happened, and I believe that the event had shook her up a little.

Superman has his Kryptonite… Supermoms can be brought down with devastating speed by car crashes.  SuperMoms do not care about themselves.  SuperMoms care about their children and families.

One of the most AMAZING things about the SuperMoms that I know is that they are multi taskers extrodinares!  They have a dozen things on the go all at once just so that they can get by in their day.  They are cooking and cleaning and looking after this and that, tending to kids and my head is almost spinning with all of the things that SuperMoms do!

With Mothers day tomorrow, I would like to offer Moms a few pointers to keep themselves and their precious children safe on the roadways.  I know that Multitasking is a Moms Gift ALL the TIME but when Mom is driving in the van with the kids you really want to keep your focus on the road.  It is just a moment of distraction where SuperMom will miss seeing that vehicle that will crash into her.

SuperMoms may be distracted by children who may be crying or fighting, or being sick or asking questions or a hundred other things that SuperMoms deal with in their vehicles.  My best advice for SuperMoms is that when you are driving you really want to be doing one thing very well.  That is DRIVING.   Whenever something pops up, it is time to head to the shoulder of the road or parking lot.  If SuperMom attempts to referee a dispute between the two darling children while driving and ends up in a crash… imagine the possible consequences. Sadly we may be dealing with some consequences for a lifetime.

IF YOU DO NOT STOP FIGHTING RIGHT NOW I WILL PULL OVER AND WE WILL NOT GO ANY FURTHER UNTIL I CAN CONCENTRATE ON DRIVING!  I don’t care if you miss ( whatever is the vital activity ) but I CANNOT DRIVE WHILE THIS IS GOING ON!

Just do It!  Take control of the situation by stopping driving and deal with whatever needs attention.  Then away you go again.

SuperMoms who reach back to replace fallen dollies or other things may drift from one lane to another or cross over that yellow line.  If a person thinks that a cell phone is a major distraction, you probably do not have kids in your life when you consider how big a distraction that our beloved little ones are!

Just think for an instant what you have to lose. A dead or crippled child. But even worse, if you are killed or crippled and unable to care for your young and loved ones.  There are no laws written about driving and dealing with children so as a SuperMom, you have to know how vital it is for your family that you have to get home safely on every trip.

Once the keys are out of the ignition, you can super multitask just the special way that only you  know how to do.

My Traffic Ticket Tips for SuperMoms:

Focus on driving, multitasking is verbotten only when there is a steering wheel in front of you.

Avoid distractions from all persons ( big and small ) in the vehicle. Take Charge and Pull over to deal with the issue and then resume once the crisis has been handled.

Imagine what life would be like if the worst case scenario actually happened to you when you were driving.  Once the tears have dried from your eyes, use your common sense to get you and yours safely from Point A to Point B!

Happy Mothers Day everyone and may your trip to see your SuperMom be safe and Traffic Ticket Free!

Drive safely!

Gord

VR, 1405

 

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A Lesson for Police Officers

As an retired police officer, I know that police officers have a lot to learn in a very short time.  Sometimes we learn lessons from examples where things have gone wrong, and at times, where things have gone terribly wrong.  I would like to bring to your attention one of those terrible situations that has had far reaching effects in the Province of Manitoba.  I will try to make no judgements as I write this entry, but I would offer this case as a study of how and why police officers must to everything that is right as we serve our public.

The details that I write have been shortened and I would invite you to read a couple of media reports for more details.

Crystal Taman was a wife and a mother of three that was driving to work one morning when she was struck from the rear by a pickup truck driven by an off duty Winnipeg Police Service officer.  It is believed that he was heading home after spending many hours with partners at a home outside of Winnipeg.

Sadly, Crystal was killed in the collision.  There is nothing that can be done to bring her back.  I am sure that there are thousands of people who would wave a magic wand and bring her back to her family and friends if they were able to. Sadly, we are not able to do this and repair this tragedy.

The police department that looked after this area was called and responded to the scene.  At some point and time, officers believed that alcohol was involved in the crash and that the driver of the pickup was a police officer.  The investigation was undertaken and the off duty officer was arrested and taken back to the police office.  There were calls that went out to other police departments to assist in the investigation.  The officer responsible to the fatal collision was charged with several offences.

At the trial, there were problems with the way that the investigation was conducted and a plea bargain was struck.  The officer who killed Crystal Taman was given two years of house arrest. Everyone was insensed with the way that things unfolded and  a public inquiry was held. People lost their jobs… People lost confidence in police officers… Crystal Taman was lost forever.

During the public inquiry, there were points where police made errors were made public. The actions and testimony have led to criminal charges to be laid against the chief of police involved in the investigation and these charges are being heard this week in Winnipeg.

Sometimes, everything that is written in the press is not completely accurate and may be skewed to suit someone’s agenda.  I can say this with certainty because I have seen with this with my own eyes.  I cannot vouch for any inaccuracies in the media reports in the Taman case and would like to say that the media is a depended on partner who works well with police on many cases.  Thanks to those journalists to bring the bad news to light.  Thanks to the journalists who have been and are documenting these stories so that lessons can be learned.

For those officers who are still on active duty, keep on fighting the good fight and thank you for keeping me and those I love, safe on the roadways and in our home.  Remember that there may be hundreds of people who are watching everything that you do and say everyday.  Sometimes  all officers are judged by the poor decisions of fellow officers and I would like to challenge you to be your best at all times.  May words like honesty, integrity and justice be some of the words that serve as the cornerstones that you walk, talk and breathe  as you go about your duties. Most people will not acknowledge your acts of kindness, politeness or doing the right thing because that’s what you are paid the big bucks to do! Just do the right things because it is simply the right thing to do and that it is in your character to do them.  I would hope that you are the reason why there are further generations of police officers who take up the career because of something that you have done.  You never know who, and how you will influence any person  on any given day.

Here are a couple of links where people may read up on the Taman case and take with them whatever lessons that you may find within the words.

http://www.winnipegsun.com/2012/04/30/ex-east-st-paul-chief-heads-to-trial

http://www.winnipegfreepress.com/local/innocent-says-former-police-chief-149618855.html

And for those officers working under trying conditions…

Drive safely,

Gord

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Motorcycle VS Bus… sadly a life was lost

It was just a matter of time until we saw an example of a high speed motorcycle crash that took a life of a young man.  A week or so ago there was a viral video of a biker driving at speeds up to 300 kph and weaving through traffic. Thanks to CTV Toronto for the following report about a tragic collision between a bike and a bus in Mississauga Ontario

 

Police charge man after fatal motorcycle collision

ctvtoronto.ca Date: Thursday Apr. 26, 2012 9:46 PM ET

Peel police have charged a man in connection to a collision that killed a 19-year-old motorcyclist in Mississauga Wednesday.

Police says Kyle Sayani, 19, of Mississauga was travelling at a high speed down Mississauga Road at approximately 6:30 p.m. on his 2000 Honda CBR 600 motorcycle when he ended up in the oncoming lane and collided with a Mississauga transit bus.

Sayani was pronounced dead at the scene of the collision.

At some point Sayani was with another man who was riding a green motorcycle. That man was allegedly also travelling at a high rate of speed, police said.

Police allege the man failed to remain at the scene of the crash and they asked the public to come forward with information about the crash on Thursday.

Police have charged Paolo Blanco, 21, of Brampton, with failure to remain causing death and criminal negligence causing dealth.

He will appear in court in Brampton on Friday.

http://toronto.ctv.ca/servlet/an/local/CTVNews/20120426/police-charge-man-motocycle-collision-12/20120426/?hub=TorontoNewHome

In the blink of an eye a young motorcycle driver crashed into a bus and lost his life.  My heart goes out to all of his family and friends who are left to deal with their grief over the loss.  I hope that someone will read the media report through my blog and somewhere, someone heeds the lesson that is imbedded into every story such as this.

My Traffic Ticket Tip:

I would like to remind all of my friends who ride the roads on bikes of any kind to take extra care when out on the roads.  By the nature of your motorcycle, you have the fantastic ability to change your speed and direction very quickly.  Unfortunately, your size and speed makes you harder to see for other drivers and you are not surrounded by protective metal and airbags like in other types of vehicles.  Safety first, wear all of your protective equipment such as leathers and helmet.

In the name of safety and avoiding those traffic tickets, bikers should look far down the road to look for other motorists, hazards and police cars.  It may be tempting to weave in and out of slower traffic but other drivers do not respect looking in blind spots for fast nimble vehicles like yours.  Slow down, take it easy!  Every day there will be other great days to ride your bike.

I am sure that a young man by the name of Kyle wished he had done things differently.

Drive Safely,

Gord

VR, 1405


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A textbook case of DWI… with a twist

Here is an article that reports that member of our national police force had pled guilty for an impaired driving charge.  While this is a sad article, I believe that it has several good points for consideration and thought.  Thank you to Steve Bruce for his reporting.

RCMP officer pleads guilty to drunk driving, fined $1,000

April 24, 2012 – 11:57am By STEVE BRUCE Court Reporter

A Halifax RCMP officer has pleaded guilty to failing the breathalyzer.

Sgt. Dwayne David Kelly, 42, entered the plea Tuesday, when he appeared in Halifax provincial court with lawyer David Bright.

Kelly was off duty when Halifax Regional Police stopped his vehicle for speeding on Bedford Highway on Jan. 10 at 2:22 a.m.

Crown attorney Dan MacRury, who was brought in from Sydney to prosecute the case, told the court that Kelly’s vehicle was going 85 kilometres an hour in a 60-km-h zone.

Police smelled alcohol on Kelly and asked him to blow into a roadside screening device. He was then arrested and transported to the police station for a breathalyzer test.

Kelly’s breathalyzer readings were both .110, or 110 milligrams of alcohol in 100 millilitres of blood, above the legal limit of .08.

Judge Michael Sherar fined Kelly the mandatory minimum of $1,000 for a first-time offence and prohibited him from driving anywhere in Canada for one year.

An accompanying charge of impaired driving was withdrawn.

Kelly’s case wasn’t supposed to be back in court until Thursday but was moved ahead at the request of the Crown.

Neither the judge nor the lawyers made any comments in court about Kelly being a Mountie.

“The bottom line is that he was treated like anyone else,” MacRury said afterward.

An RCMP spokesman said in January that Kelly had been placed on administrative duties pending the outcome of the charges.

Two members of the regional police force are also before the courts on impaired-driving charges.

Sgt. Kevin Tellenbach, 53, was arrested Dec. 17 after an unmarked police vehicle was involved in a minor crash on Magazine Hill near Bedford.

Const. Jennifer Lea McPhee, 35, was charged Feb. 19 after police stopped a car on Coronation Avenue in Halifax.

Tellenbach and McPhee were both off duty at the time and have been suspended with pay.

(sbruce@herald.ca)

http://thechronicleherald.ca/metro/89735-rcmp-officer-pleads-guilty-to-drunk-driving-fined-1000

In 2012 AD, EVERYONE should be aware of the dangers of impaired driving due to all of the education initiatives in schools, advertising, media attention and the efforts of Mothers Against Drunk Driving.  Mr. Kelly was caught driving while impaired and faced the consequences of his actions like any other person.

Mr. Kelly now has a criminal record, and will not be able to drive for a year. I am not sure how matters stand with his employer, but there may be a chance that Mr. Kelly may lose his job.  Holy Cow! How many of you have thought that a few drinks out would impact how you would be able to provide for your family when you sit down with your buddies?

Fortunately, Mr. Kelly was not involved in a crash which appears to be the most severe outcome of impaired driving.  There is no rhyme or reason of what will be an outcome of any crash and what the consequences will be for those involved.  Sometimes everyone walks away unscathed, sometimes there is a lifetime of pain and suffering with injuries, and sometimes people die.

My Traffic Ticket Tips:

Ok, here we go again, a brief study of a case where a driver drove while impaired.

This driver got behind the wheel of his car after he had consumed several beverages that brought his Blood Alcohol Content over the legal limit.  The good people at MADD say not to drink and drive… ever.  There is a good reason for this line of thinking and impairment begins with 1 drink.

The driver was pulled over while he was found to be speeding at 85 in a 60 zone.  The officer detected the odor of alcohol on the driver and the driver failed the roadside screening test and subsequently failed the breath test.

The incident happened in the early morning hours which is prime time impaired driving time for  police officers who are out looking for  DWIs.

How to avoid this type of textbook situation.

1. No drinky – No drivey

2. Designated drivers and all of those other strategies  blah blah blah but the beautiful thing about them is that they will work!!!  You will avoid an impaired charge if you heed them.

3. Avoid attracting attention of the police to you… no speeding, no driving infractions.

4. Inspecting your vehicle to make sure that all of your equipment is operating properly.

So everyone, please just do the right thing.

My final comment is an attempt to be a non comment, just as it was a non comment during Mr.  Kelly’s trial. No mention that Mr. Kelly was a Mountie. He was treated like everyone else.

I believe that there is a simple beauty to that. Nothing more to be said.

Drive Safely,

Gord

VR, 1405

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“Hobo-Cops” cracking down on cell phone users

 

I just heard of a new term… Hobo-Cops… a name given to police officers who dress down to mimic a street person to perform traffic surveillance.  To me it is an interesting term… kinda catchy. However that is exactly what these officers are up to.  Catching the people who are texting and driving or using their cellphones improperly.

So I would like to bring your attention to the story that appeared in the Ottawa Citizen recently and all of the credits for hard work to all of those at the Citizen.  Thank you for spreading the word about this issue. The photo above and to the left was not in the Citizen article,  I have added it to my blog comment just as a demo.

Cellphone crackdown by ‘panhandling’ officer to expand

By JEFF MACKEY, The Ottawa Citizen April 21, 2012

An unusual sting operation that saw a police officer dressed as a homeless man panhandling near busy intersections to catch traffic law violators was so successful the Ottawa force plans to take it across the city.

The pilot project, which was carried out over 8.5 hours on Wednesday, Thursday and Friday, led to 209 provincial offence notices, 97 of which were for distracted driving.

“We will be going as far as Richmond, we will be going to Cumberland, we will go to Manotick, we will do it everywhere we think there is a problem, and right now it is a problem,” said Sgt. Al Ferris of the Ottawa police traffic escort unit.

During the sting, the “homeless” officer peeked into drivers’ windows to see whether they were breaking any highway traffic laws, with a special focus on distracted driving, which often means people talking on their cellphone while driving.

Ontario introduced a new law in October 2009 that made it illegal to use a hand-held mobile device to talk, text or email while operating a motor vehicle. The fine for distracted driving ranges from $155 to $500.

Though the sting caught many Ottawa residents off guard, Ferris says the technique is not new to police forces.

“We came across this idea from other police agencies in North America,” said Ferris.

“We wanted to capture the true driving habits of people. It seems to have worked quite well.”

Marie Nicastro, 19, was one of the drivers ticketed by the sting. At about 1:05 p.m. on Thursday, Nicastro was driving to work when, on the Rochester off-ramp, she was confronted by what she called a “hobo cop.”

“He was an older man, probably around 45 and he had a hat on with fluffy sides around the ears and plaid jacket, he looked 100 per cent like a hobo,” said Nicastro, “He also had a sign that said he was ‘A Constable with the Ottawa police and if you are talking on your phone you are going to get a ticket,’ and then it said ‘god bless’ at the bottom.”

Nicastro said she plans to fight the ticket in court.

“I’m pretty angry, just because it was unexpected. I never thought a hobo would pull me over.

“This is definitely going to make me think twice about homeless people I see on the street,” said Nicastro.

It is not an uncommon sight in Ottawa to see panhandlers asking for donations on Queensway off-ramps.

“There was one panhandler that came along and saw my officer there, and this place was his frequent haunt,” said Ferris. “He gave my guy a dirty look, but the officer identified himself and the man moved on. It wasn’t a problem.”

“We went to another couple of locations as well,” said Ferris, “they are all locations that are frequented by panhandlers of course. That way we can catch the public off guard and capture the true driving habits of individuals.”

D. Daoust, who didn’t want to give his first name, says he has been asking for donations at the Cumberland/Bank off-ramp for three years. He thinks the sting operation by police was “a bit of a sneaky trick.” Daoust says police often charge homeless people on off-ramps and busy intersections with panhandling or interfering with traffic and that it is unfair that they are now exploiting it for their own purposes.

Daoust says he aims to make $20 to 30 a day at an intersection. Still, he doesn’t seem too worried about this police tactic souring people to giving him donations.

“Ottawa is a generous town, People know who I am, they know I rely on them,” said Daoust.

© Copyright (c) The Ottawa Citizen
http://www.ottawacitizen.com/news/Blotter/6495158/story.html

The Hobo-Cop operation is becoming more and more popular and is spreading from coast to coast and all across North America.  I have read about a bunny costumed traffic guy around Easter so I would like to suggest that  there may be more and more to the theme operations coming down the pipe.

There are more and more people who are coming forward and talking about this topic of smart phones and driving and these are generally people who have been impacted the most.  They are the loved ones of people who have been killed by distracted driving.  Each and every story features a great person who is truly missed.  To select one story over another is a task for another day and I will at one point in time bring some of these stories to my blog.  If you have been touched by a loss, and are in a position where you are comfortable to share, please bring it to my attention and I will share your story.

My Traffic Ticket Tips:

I know the smart phones are like crack cocaine and there is something in all of us that somehow feels like we have to immediately respond to every call and every text coming in.  There are studies and driving demos that show how poorly people drive while distracted by the phones were carry into our cars.  Here are several tips that will have you driving safely and avoid crashes and those driving awards given out by Hobo-Cop.

1. Research the laws so you know what you can do and can’t do legally.  Follow this knowledge to a “T.”

2. Purchase technology such as hands free devices that will make your calling practices safer.

3. Buy a cell phone holder that will take the device out of your hands.

4. Use self restraint when the phone rings and pull over to a safe place and call back the caller.

5. In the absence of all or any of the above… turn off the phone for a while…

6. Share these tips with your friends and other people that you care about.

Thanks for coming by and please feel free to leave any comments that you would like to share or point out some direction that you would like to see this blog go.  In the meantime…

Drive safely,

Gord

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It’s cap and gown season!

This is the time of the year where a crop of high school graduates will be under the gun for a whole lot of reasons.  There will be pressures to finish up the exams and see what is going on for college plans, who is going to the grad with me and what will I wear?  OMG!  I am so glad that I am not a grad in today’s world.  It seems that there is so much more to consider than when I was a Grad!

Grad is not really just about one night where many schools set up a “Safe Grad” where we gather up all of our young men and ladies and close them in so that they may celebrate together all of their achievements.  There are possibly grad trips, pre-grad  events and planning sessions where there may be celebrating.  There are probably some grads who may have been celebrating getting out into the world for quite some time!

Yay for the grads!  This grad will mark one of the big days of your lives.  You will be saying bye to some of your friends as your lives come to a fork in the road.  There probably been some great times and some sad times but lets face it high school is a pretty significant time in a persons life.  Some people will be in a rush to leave, while for some people school was the place where they won that championship and were the kings of the world!

Grads have been celebrating for decades and decades and have been using alcohol and other things in these celebrations.  I am not going to say to anyone what they could and should be doing when celebrating or I do not want to say that you should not be doing.   I just want to use this blog as a platform for parents and grads to be aware that this may be a good opportunity to set up some plans for an incident free grad season for your family.  I just want your Grad to be the best time you have had in your lives to date.

Every year, somewhere, there are incidents where young people are seriously injured and killed by the roadways around grad time.   It doesn’t really matter if they are a driver, a passenger, a pedestrian, whether or not they are impaired or not, but tragedy strikes and really great people with very promising futures are taken from us or suffer life changing injuries.  This may be at a pre-grad event that is held midweek or sometime else whenever people gather together.  I know that someone may point out that some of these tragedies will not involve intoxicants but in the majority of cases they do.

If you are a parent, here is a great opportunity to sit down with your young adults and have a first or another talk about staying safe around celebrations and making the right choice to get home safely.  If you are concerned for your kid, you really have to do this!  I know it will be challenging, but you gotta do it!  I know that their eyes may glaze over, they may flip you off or whatever but at least invoke this opportunity to let them know how much that you care about them.  In some homes, alcohol may be forbidden, but for the next little while it may be worth considering negotiating some give and take.

Option 1. Your young adult will know that if they are in a situation where they have been drinking and they have a vehicle, or are facing being a passenger in a vehicle where the driver has been drinking that he will be given immunity from any judgements if they call home for a safe ride home.  No punishments, no lectures, no nothing.  Well, perhaps in the morning, Mom and Dad might want to offer up the asprin and a cold cloth and a hug and a kiss letting the kid know they are safe at home.

Option 2. Your young adult feels that he will be in trouble and while trying to sneak behind your back ends up dead in a crash.  Or you end up caring for a young person who requires constant medical attention for the rest of their natural lives.

Which option are you prepared to for the rest of your life?.

Hey kids, (I use kids as a term of affection in my home so please feel my intended respect) perhaps this may be the time where you can show how really smart you are and lay things out for Mom and Dad.  Let them know that you may depending on them to help you out in a pretty serious situation and that you would appreciate their love and understanding so that the potential for heartbreak does not happen.   It may be a good idea to cover off a possibility that they may “rescue” a couple of friends at the same time and drive them home too, or that there may be a sleep over at home for the rest of the night.  If you are “rescued”by another family, remember that a phone call home is very important if you are not coming home.  Your parents may be pacing the floors, or keeping one ear open for that creak of a floor board in the house.

My Traffic Ticket Tip:

So this is another one of those times were avoiding a traffic ticket is just the beginning of the whole whack of grief that I want you to avoid.  My line of thinking is that if you avoid the possibility of avoiding a traffic ticket you will avoid fines and all that stuff. You will be driving in a sober condition, distraction free and that will get you home safely without any injury to your body or your vehicle.  Getting home safe after every trip is the bottom line for me. Talking with the ones you love will be the first step of planning a safe way home every night, whether you are celebrating or not.  And remember, young adults can definitely come to the rescue of parents.

In any case, You are responsible for making your own proper decision. Be respectful to yourself so that you are not caught without a plan and a back up plan in case you or your driver ends up where they should not drive.

When I was at my Kid’s grads, I was so extremely proud of my kids and their friends when they were all together and decked out in their caps and gowns.  The ear to ear smiles and pats on the backs and hugs were priceless.  The jeans and T shirts types who wore tuxes or suits and tomboys who wore strapless gowns absolutely blew me away.  I am so pleased that the only setbacks of the evening were hearing about a spat between a couple or hearing that some of the grads had come down with a temporary flu.  Hearts and minds will heal from those kinds of hurts.

I hope that all of you Grads have an absolute great day and remember that there will be things that will not turn out exactly the way you want it anyway… Don’t sweat the small stuff and wherever and whatever you are celebrating, kick up your heels and have the time of your life that will be remembered with all of your friends, family, teachers and classmates.

Drive Safely,

Gord

1405, VR

 

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My response to The Roy Green Show

Last Sunday I happened to catch part of the Roy Green Show on CJOB radio and heard a apart of an interesting segment.  The host of the show, Roy Green voiced his opinion about police “fishing holes” and I thought that even though I was not able to call into the show, I thought that I may have something to offer for his consideration.

The segment in blue type is part of Roy’s website  that offers you a snapshot of his program.

Reaction to last weekend’s segment on police fishing holes

much reaction to my challenging police ‘fishing holes’ on major highways were cruisers hide in the weeds looking to pick off ‘convenient’ drivers exceeding the speed limit.
My argument was (and remains) against these fishing holes. A mobile cruiser on the highway will do more good in assisting traffic flow than two or three cruisers parked in the weeds at the bottom of a hill on a four lane divided major highway.
I see these fishing holes as largely tax revenue generating efforts and while a retired Edmonton police officer agreed largely with my position, callers and listeners sending email to roy@roygreenshow.com mostly took exception with my view.
I received an email from a police officer who was on traffic duty while the show was on the air and heard a good portion of the segment. He too disagrees and sent email on the issue. I’ve invited the officer to be on one of this weekend’s shows and share his thoughts. This won’t be confrontational, but I’m convinced fishing holes exist and are there to generate income perhaps even more than for safety reasons.
Will share an experience about a sitatution in Ontario where I challenged a speeding ticket because it was an obvious fishing hole. The Ontario government attorney’s response to my challenge was interesting to say the least.
What’s also interesting is the level of interest and passion I’ve heard and read on this topic.

My Traffic Ticket Tip and email to Mr. Green:

Dear Roy,

I was fortunate enough to catch the last part of your show about police fishing holes and I was pleased that the two officers who spoke to you on air were able to sway your opinion slightly. I wanted to offer you several points for your consideration, based on my observations and experiences that have seen as a trained Radar Operator, Breathalyser Technician and a Traffic Collision Analyst. I have had a few positive experiences out on the roads but have been heartbreaking experiences at accident scenes that have been caused by poor driving decisions.

We will not find one person in this world who would be pleased to get a traffic ticket.  The” fishing hole” or place where officers “hide out in the weeds” may be a fair description of areas where police park to monitor traffic speeds on our roads.  Other people call them “traps.”  In a true sense of a “trap” police would have to lure in or entice or tempt a driver to exceed the speed limit or commit a traffic offence.  To the best of my knowledge, the situation that you take exception to, would not have police enticing drivers to apply more pressure to the gas pedal.  Every driver decides on their own, how fast that they are to be traveling.  If the speed limit is 100, with all things being equal, drivers should be driving at 100 or slower depending on road conditions.  I have listened to many Traffic Court Judges  remind people that  the posted speed is a maximum speed and that you are still speeding if you drive faster than the limit to pass someone, for example.  The drivers who are driving at the speed limit and not having any other reasons for a police to stop them will drive by the fishing hole without a second look from the officers.

If a driver chooses on his own accord to exceed the speed limit by 5, 10 or how many ever clicks that he believes that he is immune from getting a ticket, this is his choice and he may find that he will be stopped by police.  Depending on situations, and conditions, officers may slide up or down their level of tolerance that they may afford drivers who may have decided to take certain liberties with their speeds.  I am not able to advise anyone that there is a safe number for those who are inclined to take those liberties because I do not want to misinform any person.  The traffic court will be looking at what is the posted speed limit.

I would bet that every driver who knew that his speed was being monitored by the police would keep to the speed limit, or slightly above or below the speed limit.  This would allow him to go merrily about his way and his licence and wallet would not be impacted by a ticket. However, when a driver believes that there is not a police presence and he will not be monitored, then there may be no limit to what speed the driver may be tempted to drive. Performing duties while not being completely visible on the roadway is the simplest way that I know of to monitor traffic that is traveling at the speed that drivers feel safe to drive at. This is why we take advantage of areas that may give us cover to do our jobs.   We can use unmarked or other non traditional vehicles to attempt to monitor drivers but due to budget and manpower constraints these methods may not be an option to police.  As an example of what one driver felt was a safe, I attach a link to a video that was recently posted where a motorcycle is driven at up to 300 kph.

http://www.cbc.ca/news/canada/british-columbia/story/2012/04/16/bc-speeding-motorcycle-video.html

Most drivers will drive near the speed limit, but I have seen where 30 % or more of the ticketed drivers are driving 30 clicks or more over the speed limit.

When you say that you believe that Police would be better managing the speeds by having a mobile patrol car marshaling traffic up and down the roadways in order to keep speeds reasonable I would like to share with you what I have seen when this happens. The marshaling temporarily slows traffic but causes bunches of vehicles that cause a moving traffic jam at the speed limit. Reluctantly,  drivers toe this line but this keeps drivers anxious to get moving at higher speeds.  Drivers will come up the group of cars following the police and stay in line until the police happen to pull off the road and then everyone is off to the races.  Speeds go up and until the pack spreads out, there are chances that the more aggressive drivers will pressure other slower drivers so that the fastest can be the fastest.  I have seen this situation happen primarily on the weekends where good volumes of traffic are wanting to travel to or from cottage country at peak weekend times or on holidays.  During these times, it was unsafe for police to do radar because the concentration of all the vehicles would not allow us to safely integrate into the high volumes of traffic.  At times, I have marshaled traffic as described as it was the only way to keep a semblance of normalcy to the traffic.  You would not believe it but I have been driving a marked RCMP car in the passing lane with a hundred or so vehicles moving along with me two by two on the double lanes of the Trans Canada Highway and have had a car pass us all at high speed on the shoulder.  There have been cars that have ended up in the ditch after cooler lids have blown out of a pickup box and people have panicked and hit the ditch because there was not enough time or space to properly avoid the debris.  I shudder to think of all of the close calls that I have seen.

Police officers who are watching their radar equipment see a car’s speed when they are being monitored be whatever the driver feels “safe” driving  and suddenly the speed drops  off to a legal speed once the police presence is detected.  The speed will remain normal until the driver passes the police car and believes he is “safe” to resume the higher than posted speed limit.  Police just switch the radar set to a rear facing setting where they can watch the driver’s speed increase as he gets farther away from the police car.  I believe that this was explained to you as a”halo effect” of a police presence on the road.

Your described “fishing holes,”  exist in areas where police know that there is a tendency to have a reasonable number of speeders that travel at significant speeds over the speed limit.  We attempt to cull those speeders out of the herd of normally driving cars.  My preferred spots gave me a reasonable area of cover to monitor cars speeds and allow me for a good safe area to be able to get out and after the speeders and pull them over.  When dealing with highway speed traffic, safety is the main consideration for me primarily as I have a family to get home to after the end of my shift.  Good fishing holes give us a good cover, a good pursuit zone to catch up to the speeders and a good safe landing spot where the drivers would normally pull over to the shoulder of the road.

When you may call a speeder as “convenient “ to be picked off by radar then I would just like to let you know that it is our job to attempt to keep our roads safe.  Most traffic officers would love to be able to write up the dangerously high speeds but this is just not possible.  It is my experience that if we are writing tickets for every 15 or 20 click speeder we would miss many of the high flyers.  If we are using fishing hole vernacular, we are wanting to land the master angler award clients instead of the ordinary client.

 

The traffic officer is not just looking for speeders.  At any given time, officers may have a look out for suspicious vehicles that may be involved in any type of crime.  We are looking into vehicles for people who are not buckled in, or for kids that may be bouncing around the vehicles.  We are looking for drivers and passengers who are in a mobile party mode and are drinking or stunting.  We are looking for vehicles that may have parts dragging or other potentially dangerous situations.  We are looking for drivers that are obviously too young to be driving.  We are looking for a wide variety of situations that may be a hazard to the people on the road that may not be obvious to the driver or anyone else.

At one point in time, police officers looked at vehicles that are driving at 20 clicks over or 20 clicks under the speed limit as a possible indication of impairment.  Traffic officers stop impaired drivers, traveling criminals, drug couriers and people who are in panic mode because they are fleeing from possible crimes that have not been reported yet.  There is intelligence that is gathered as far as who is traveling with whom and who has warrants and suspended driving privileges.

Sadly, there are people who have learned that there are huge amounts of revenue can be generated though the use of fines and sanctions.  Up to now I have only mentioned the police officer and not said a word about traffic camera systems.  We are not able to have a police officer every so many miles up and down the countryside to protect drivers from themselves and their bad driving decisions.  In the past years, the fines have gone up rapidly and I have no doubt that the fines can cause financial hardships for many people.  There is a segment of the Canadian population that have never had a traffic ticket and will tell you that it is not difficult to keep your driving record clean.  The simple truth is that people who get tickets are people who are breaking the rules of the road.  A little bit of simple knowledge, common sense, discipline and good luck can keep people ticket free.  I bet that I may be able to get you to admit that there may have been once in your life that you may have noticed that cop at the last minute and knew that your goose was cooked because you may have done something that merited a ticket.   Ok, so I will not put you in that spot, but I will admit that I have had that happen and will immediately look in my rear view mirror and be praying “keep going, keep going, keep going, don’t turn around, keep going… yes, yes, yes, that was close!” Can you identify with my experience?  Thank you.

At any given time, a good driver may have a lapse of concentration that may lead to more pressure on the accelerator that may lead to a police experience and a ticket and a talking to.  Traffic tickets suck and plainly no one likes to spend money on traffic fines.  I used to think that I would like to write traffic tickets all day long in minus 40 degrees rather than be sliding anyone into a body bag.  And that is a reality that people are not really conscious of.  A moment of inattention can cost you your life.  Losing a friend or a parent or a child REALLY SUCKS!  Every day there are people who lose their lives on our roadways due to any number of reasons.  As a society we flip over those pages, or glaze over or change the channel when the media covers the issues of deaths and impaired driving.  And that is really sad.

Roy, in my life I grew up in a small Manitoban town where the garage was right on the way to the school from my home.  Like every rubbernecker on the road, I remember looking at the wrecks.  I took a closer look as I was curious, even at a young age.  I could see the varying amounts of blood and the damage.  My mom was a nurse at the local hospital; my dad ran the local ambulance service and funeral home.   I know the truths that other people do not want to see or acknowledge.

Since I retired from police work, I have started a blog at http://www.MyTrafficTicketTips.com

At this site I try to educate people one by one about avoiding traffic tickets and driving properly and consistently making good life choices while driving. I use the traffic ticket angle because no one wants to pay any of their hard earned $$$ on traffic tickets.  People can identify with the pain of paying for a ticket but they do not want to face the possibility that they are making life changing decisions when they are breaking the rules of the road.  I am working on an eBook to help people use strategies that can keep them engaged on the roadway and thinking about how they are driving.  I truly believe that if you drive properly you will avoid traffic tickets and come home to family safe and sound every night.

Roy, I hope that you can hear my perspective about fishing holes and the such. I have heard you intelligently banter about all sorts of subjects on the radio and know that the radio lets all of us learn a little something every day.  I hope that you may take to your heart my words and use them in your life to keep you and yours safe.  I end every blog at my website the following way.

Drive safely,

Gord

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A driving perspective from India

Just for fun I thought that I would like to offer up an article written by an Indian driver with his comments, concern and issues with driving in India and America…

I hope that you enjoy!

Speeding is a one-way ticket to an early grave

The Anonymous Alien

Today, as happens to me frequently in India, I was driving down a busy street and another car — in my lane but heading the wrong way — was approaching me at high speed. I calmly slowed my vehicle, moved as far to my left as I could and the oncoming car squeezed by. No issues, no problems. I made it to work on time.

Had the same incident happened, say, on an American road, it would have been terrifying. I would have cranked the wheel over, skidded onto the shoulder, and, after the adrenalin-rush subsided, called 911 (the emergency number for the police), and reported the incident. Had the police caught the driver of the oncoming vehicle, he would have been arrested, fined and possibly thrown in jail.

Who has it right? The nonchalant Indians, who seem to take such everyday incidents in stride? Or the uptight Americans, who beep and honk and call the cops when they spot a driver doing practically anything wrong.

Last month, a friend of mine was driving on a single-lane road in Goa, when an oncoming car in the wrong lane forced her to crank the steering wheel left, sending her car careening into the woods. She survived, but her broken hip and wrist may never heal properly.

The incident got me to thinking. In some five years in India, I have seen cops pulling a driver over for a traffic violation perhaps half a dozen times. In America and Europe, you see cops pulling people over for violations multiple times every day. Now we all know this isn’t because Indians are perfect drivers. In fact, on a nearly hourly basis when driving I see Indians doing things that I’m pretty sure are illegal and that I almost never see anywhere else and that are VERY dangerous; driving on the wrong side of the road: whipping U-turns in the middle of the street: running red lights: and, my personal favourite, stopping in the middle of the road and changing drivers.

I don’t blame Indians, per say. Since there is practically no legal downside to performing acts that would land them with a big fine or in jail almost anywhere else, the temptations to break obvious laws is too great, so they break them. I doubt people of any other nationality would resist either.

But there are HUGE consequences. India, today, has the most dangerous roads in the world. In the most recent year for which numbers are available, approximately 130,000 Indians died on India’s streets and highways. Now I know what you are thinking; it’s because there are so many people and cars in India that so many people die. Nope, sorry. If you look at the number of fatalities per number of vehicles on the road, an apples to apples comparison, India’s fatality rate is roughly 50 times higher than in the United States. 50 times. FIFTY TIMES.

Think of it this way. If, for example, your twenty year-old daughter is driving home from a mall in India, she has a 50-times greater chance of getting in a fatal accident than if she’s driving home from a mall in the United States or Canada. Same, say, 10 kilometer drive. But 50 times greater odds of dying.

Okay, maybe some of this is due to the poorer road conditions of a still-developing India. Maybe some of it is due to the higher per-vehicle occupancy rate. But I know a lot more of it is due to the fact that everyone drives dangerously in India, because they can.

It’s time to put an end to this. To put some seriously healthy fines in place for whipping U-turns anywhere, anytime, and incentivise cops to enforce the fines relentlessly. Only then will people stop whipping U-turns. Throw people in jail who drive on the wrong side of the road and people like my friend will not be hobbling around with broken hips and wrists nearly as often. In short, start firing cops who don’t issue LOTS of traffic tickets, and rewarding those who do, and we all get much, much safer.

Now I know the arguments against this. Corruption, abuse of power — I get it. But those are problems to be solved, not excuses to let lax enforcement contribute to 130,000 deaths per year, and countless more lifelong injuries.

It’s easy to hate the idea of getting a traffic ticket, and easier still to hate actually getting one. But if it saves your kid, or your spouse, or your mum, from getting badly injured or killed, maybe a nasty little ticket is a small price to pay. In fact, maybe it’s a price we should all insist on paying.

A foreigner’s observations on living, working, surviving and thriving in India.

http://postnoon.com/2012/04/13/speeding-is-a-one-way-ticket-to-an-early-grave/43260

My Traffic Ticket Tip:

One of the tips that was taught at the RCMP academy driving school was to aim high when looking down the roadway… to look far ahead of you.

This is how it works for avoiding traffic tickets… When you look far down the road you get to see the patrol cars farther away.  If you are driving properly, the beauty is NO TICKETS.

When you look far down the road you can see other drivers brake lights which may indicate road hazards, wildlife near the road and the possibility of patrol cars in the area.  This is your clue to make sure that you are not doing anything that would attract attention to your car and of course, Avoid traffic tickets.

Drive safely,

Gord

VR, 1405

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Playoff tips… celebrating your celebrations!

It’s playoff season for the NHL and all across North America Hockey Fans are heading to arenas an other establishments to cheer on their hometown heroes on ice!

GO ( Insert the name of your fave team ) GO!!!

So my friend Sandra asked me what tips that I could offer up to fans who are heading out to take in the greatest sport on ice.  So Sandra here we go…

Make a plan… If you are going out to cheer on your team and there is the possibility that you are going to raise the glass of an alcoholic bevvy, make that plan for a safe ride home with a sober driver.  Leave your car at home and head in by carpool or other means so you will not be tempted to drive if you are celebrating your win or drowning your tears in your beers.

Have a Backup plan… just in case your DD ( Designated Driver ) gets caught up in the emotion and has a couple Bevvies.   Many unfortunate drinkers have made a choice that they are the lesser impaired of the carload and get pulled over by the Police.  Carry an extra stash of cash for a cab ride or carry a phone number for a friend who can pick you up and give you a place to stay for the night.  Better to crash at a friend’s place than to crash into someone or something.

If things get way out of hand… find a hotel to sleep it off.., a hundred bucks or so will be far less expensive that the thousands that it will cost you to defend yourself or pay the fines of a DUI charge.

Park in a well lit area… Avoid dark spots where there may be the possibility of smash and grabs or maybe a mugging. Remove or hide all items of value.

Make sure your parking spot will not be ticketed… by looking for parking signs and instructions and following all information to a T.  A couple of minutes may cost you big bucks or a tow if you are not vigilant.

If you are a player… remember you may have had a great effort on the ice and you do not want to be chillin’ in the cooler.  If you get tagged with DUI, you will be be forever known as the distraction that made things go off the rails for your team.

And if you think that you will not get stopped by Police, here is a hot off the presses story about an NHLer who hit the news wires today.  You do not want to be a headliner!

Former Maple Leaf captain Rick Vaive not guilty of impaired driving

Read Rick’s story by following the link>>>>

http://www.thestar.com/news/crime/article/1160460–former-maple-leaf-captain-rick-vaive-not-guilty-of-impaired-driving#article

Fortunately, Rick got stopped by police prior to having a possible accident and I am sure that his lawyer fees were very significant.  How many of you would prefer to learn a lesson by reading about someone else’s situation rather than experiencing it for yourself?

Drive Safely,

Gord

VR, 1405

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